Children’s Literature Doesn’t Matter.

Who cares about children’s literature?


Children’s literature isn’t important.

Not only is it easy to write, the content is simplistic and the target audience isn’t particularly discerning.  Real writers pen works for adults: novels full of multi-syllabic words and sophisticated, philosophical themes.

Unfortunately, these are relatively common opinions.  The worth of children’s literature is rarely regarded as meaningful or significant, and the value of children’s literature is often overlooked.

Children’s literature is just as important, if not more so, than adult literature. Both reading and writing literature for children has the ability to offer insight, power, discovery, and help in processing and understanding emotions and events. Furthermore, “We should also take children’s literature seriously because it is sometimes subversive: because its values are not always those of the conventional adult world” (Lurie, xi). Because children are in the process of growing, and they “lack experience in the world, they are able to accept the possibility of many things that adults know are impossible” (Paul, 16).

Children’s literature isn’t important; it is vital. It has the unique ability to make the impossible possible.


Reading Matters:


That the reading and writing of children’s literature are so disregarded and undervalued is a severe detriment to our society. Well-written children’s literature is crucial to developing healthy perspective, positive growth, and an open mind. Through reading, children can learn that there are “alternative ways of being in and thinking about the world” (Meek-Spencer, 547). This mindset is crucial for growth and development both of an individual as well as of a society, as “our society can only grow stronger as we teach our children to be stronger” (Trites, 138).  It is through reading and learning that this growth is nurtured – by illustrating, sometimes literally, a range of perspectives, possibilities and potentials.

Children especially are in need of relevant literature because well-written children’s literature develops and strengthens a child’s cognitive and imaginative skills at a time when they are most open to learning. Experiencing a variety of perspectives helps to “make abstract ideas concrete, inviting young readers to consider complex philosophical, theological, and political questions in uniquely accessible ways” (Baker, 125). Children’s books can also provide and illustrate coping mechanisms for dealing with changes, and things unfamiliar, of which there are many during childhood. The stories and concepts found in children’s literature frequently “help (children) through hard times and let them know they’re not alone” (Paul,192).  Books can help create “a place apart from the demands and stresses of daily life, a sanctuary in and from which the child can explore the many worlds” (Parravano, 6), and it is in this place a child can develop methods to help them both“understand and control the world” (Lurie, 202).

A well-developed imagination is a necessity in order to shape and understand the world.

While creativity should be “kindled and honored and treated with respect” (Lamb, 218), “the problem is, from early childhood, most of us are taught that imagination is inferior to intellect – that creativity is inferior to logic” (Lamb, 217). Children’s literature encourages creative thinking and problem-solving, opening the doors to a limitless array of possibilities.  Reading “stretches the imagination, intellect, and emotions in ways that enhance, rather than discourage, children’s engagement with real life” (Baker, 125), which can lead to a more imaginative and intelligent society.

Children are an essential audience because they have such potential to shape the future – after all, “without a thoughtful, educated, and well-read population, how can we solve the many problems – environment, health care, schools, wars – facing us?” (Paul, 242).  Through children’s literature, children learn that “what’s going on in their everyday lives matters” (Hepperman, 239) and they “emerge on the other side of the book as more capable, confident human beings” (Smith, 173). Words, stories, and ideas are “entering their minds, maybe making them see the world in a new way, maybe becoming part of them” (Levine, 155). Seeing the world in new and different ways allows children the opportunity to improve their situation and society by improving their minds.


Writing Matters:


Just as reading children’s literature grows and develops a child’s mind, writing children’s literature allows an author to grow and develop the mind of a child in themselves.

While “most people think writing for children is easier than writing for adults” (Lamb, 2), authors of children’s literature deserve just as much praise and recognition for their work, for they are “the first step up the ladder to create lifetime readers” (Paul, 242).

An author needs to utilize the same principles and fundamentals of the craft, and also translate these essentials into something applicable and appealing, to the viewpoint of a child – not an easy task!

In addition, children’s authors need to appeal to a more diverse audience, one that is composed of a multitude of subdivisions. Adult literature has a range of genres, but children’s literature consists of the same genres for a diverse variety of subdivisions of children’s literature, primarily based on age and developmental levels; from picture books to early readers to young adult.

It takes a great deal of skill in the craft of writing to appeal to an audience from which one is so far removed, and it is “the particular gift of some writers to remain, in a sense, children all their lives: to continue to see the world as boys and girls see it and to take their side instinctively” (Lurie, 14). This gift is one that has the potential to, through changing lives, change the world.

When you write a book for a child, you give him or her words – you give a voice to the voiceless. You open new worlds, introduce new ways of thinking and lift that child closer to the light. This is the power and purpose of story. And this is the gift the storyteller can give” (Lamb, 5).

Writing helps both the reader and the writer find their voice. And at what better time than when you are a child do you need help discovering your own voice?


Both reading and writing not only embolden people to discover and use their unique voices, they “deepen and widen and expand our sense of life: they feed the soul” (Lamott, 237).

Reading and writing are both severely undervalued, but never more so than when it is the literature for children literature that is being written and read. It is unfortunately typical of an adult to see a children’s book as only a teaching tool for direct conceptual learning.

The potential of children’s literature is so much greater.

Don’t think of books for young people as tools; try instead to treat them as invitations into the reading life – that life can be a rich place” (Sutton, xiv).

Literature can teach cognitive and emotional understanding, encourage creativity and empathy, and increase awareness and acceptance of different points of view.  Children’s literature allows both readers and writers the strength and ability to “appeal to the imaginative, questioning, rebellious child within all of us, renew out instinctive energy, and act as a force for change” (Lurie, xi).

Literature for children matters immensely if we want to foster a future of kindness, respect, and harmony. And I hope we do.


Works Cited:

Baker, Derirdre F. (2010). Your Journey Is Inward, but It Will Seem Outward. In  R. Sutton and M. Parravano (Editors), A Family of Readers.  (pp. 124-132). Crawsfordville, IN: Candlewick Press.

Heppermann, Christine. (2010). Telling the Truth. In  R. Sutton and M. Parravano (Editors), A Family of Readers.  (pp. 239-244). Crawsfordville, IN: Candlewick Press.

Lamb, Nancy. (2001). The Writer’s Guide to Crafting Stories for Children. Cincinnati, Ohio: Writer’s Digest Books.

Lamott, Anne. (1994). Bird by Bird. New York: Anchor Books.

Levine, Gail Carson. (2006). Writing Magic. New York: HarperCollins Publishers.

Long, Joanna Rudge. (2010). What Makes a Good “Three Little Pigs”?. In  R. Sutton and M. Parravano (Editors), A Family of Readers.  (pp. 76-82). Crawsfordville, IN: Candlewick Press.

Lurie, Alison. (1990). Don’t Tell the Grown-Ups: The subversive Power of Children’s Literature. New York: Nack Bay Books.

Meek Spencer, Margaret. (2003). What More Needs Saying about Imagination? In Reading Research Quarterly (Vol. 38, pp. 546-551).

Parravano, Martha V. (2010). Overview. In  R. Sutton and M. Parravano (Editors), A Family of Readers.  (pp. 1-6). Crawsfordville, IN: Candlewick Press.

Paul, Ann Whitford. (2009). Writing Picture Books. Cincinatti, Ohio: Writers Digest Books.

Smith, Vicky. (2010). Know-How and Guts. In  R. Sutton and M. Parravano (Editors), A Family of Readers.  (pp. 172-179). Crawsfordville, IN: Candlewick Press.

Sutton, Roger. (2010). Introduction. In  R. Sutton and M. Parravano (Editors), A Family of Readers.  (pp. i-xviii). Crawsfordville, IN: Candlewick Press.

Trites, Roberta S. (1997). Waking Sleeping Beauty: Feminist Voices in Children’s Novels. University of Iowa Press, ProQuest Ebook Central, https://ebookcentral.proquest.com/lib/pensu/detail.action?docID=1021700.

For Want of a Bathroom: A Modern Fairytale Retelling with a New POV

A fun, playful modern fairy tale reinterpretation exploring the oft-ignored father in the Cinderella story and how he might have felt suddenly living with so many ladyfolk!


For Want of a Bathroom

The sun filtering in through dusty blinds confirms what the dogs next door were already telling the entire neighborhood: the day is officially beginning. Ugh! Every morning with those dogs and their barking.  From beneath my heavy wooden desk, Max looks up at me with wide-eyed disapproval.

“I know – They’re not good boys like you, are they?”

Sighing, I gently place my lukewarm cup of coffee on the wooden desk, trying to savor my last precious moments of calm before the storm. Soon, the house will erupt with clamor and clatter and racket as the girls spill down the stairs, each vying for attention, and, of course, highly coveted bathroom time.

If I hear just one more complaint about somebody stealing somebody else’s makeup or using up all the hot water, – I swear I’m going to shower first, then purposefully let the hot water run down the drain. The make-up can all go in the trash. They don’t need it anyway.

With a grimace, I close my eyes and massage my temples. One bathroom was plenty when it was just the two of us! I should have considered more closely the practicalities of adding three additional females to the family. There are bras everywhere! Each time I turn around, there’s another bra! It’s as if they’re multiplying! Just how many bras does a girl even need!?

Well, an adjustment period is natural for all of us, I suppose. But this house is simply overflowing with femininity.

Remembering the events of last night, my somber frown turns to a grin, and an appreciative snort. It really wasn’t funny, but the looks on my stepdaughters’ faces when Ella bluntly informed them of the purpose of a plunger – I tried to keep a straight face – I really did!

I guess today will include plunging lessons for Payton and Sloane. We should probably all sit down together to discuss bathroom-related chores and scheduling. I wonder if a chore chart would help? We probably still have those gold star stickers stuck in a drawer somewhere. But how to divvy up the responsibilities and duties? I can already hear the whines of “It’s not faaaaaaair!” sung in ringing discordance.

Even my beautiful new wife is not immune from the discontent – every morning, she laments not only the lack of an ‘appropriate’ master bathroom, but also the lack of space in our closet for her expensive designer clothes and her ever-expanding shoe collection. Every time I pull her into me, nuzzling her neck with, “Vivvy – you don’t need all that – you’re beautiful to me whatever you wear!” she just laughs and pushes me away “It’s Vivienne – you know I hate that silly nickname!”

This modest home is full to bursting! But today I’ve a surprise for my girls. All my girls. Each so precious and special in such different ways. I’ve been hard at work planning some additions to the house, and today is the day construction begins. I can’t wait to see their faces! Maybe today will be the first day of no bickering, no snark, and no eye-rolling! Okay that’s probably not that realistic. They are teenage girls. Honestly, even half the current amount of drama would be a miracle.

Expanding the second floor over the garage will not only allow for the addition of a private bathroom and larger closets in the master bedroom, but also – not one, but TWO extra bathrooms! Sure, one will be little more than the size of a closet, but each of my girls shall have a bathroom of her own!

I hear an increase in grumblings and irritable stomping from upstairs, and I gently roll up the blueprints, and prepare myself for the looming hurricane that is living with four women.

At my feet, Max perks up his ears at the crescendo of bickering voices that tumble and bounce down the stairs.

“At least you’re on my side, right buddy?” I ask, scratching his ears affectionately. “We fellas have to stick together.”

As the footsteps cascade into a thunder, and the tempest approaches, Max eyes me dubiously. With a stretch, and twitch of his tale, he scampers toward the door, and I am left alone to face the squall.

Apps for Naps

Apps for Naps:

THESE ARE ALL FREE (with options to upgrade, cause that’s how apps work)

Calm: The only app I actually paid for. This app has tons of music, meditations, and sleep stories to help with insomnia. I believe the free version had three or four sleep stories, and some basic meditations as well as “The 7 days of calm,” a week-long series of guided meditations focused on relaxation.  It keeps track of your statistics and has a variety of background moving images with sounds you can choose to activate or not. I tried the free app for about a month and really loved it! It quickly became an integral part of my night-time sleep ritual.  Finally, I made an investment in my well-being and bought a year-long subscription.  Totally worth it. The meditations are organized into categories such as ‘relationships,’ ‘calming anxiety,’ ‘forgiveness,’ and ‘deep sleep,’ then time, and most of them are guided – great for a beginner like me!  They also have many 7-day programs on different topics: ‘7 days of managing stress,’ 7 days of gratitude,’ ‘7 days of self-esteem,’ and more!  The sleep stories are awesome! They have a variety of readers reading a variety of types of stories of variety of lengths in soothing voices.

My favorite non-fictions are “Blue Gold,” a story read by Stephen Fry about harvesting lavender in France, “Scotland’s Hidden Hideaways,” a history of the bothies (free adapted shelters for hikers and travelers) of Scotland read by May Charters (yes, she has an accent!), and ‘The Sequoia,’ a nature essay about the Sequoia tree written by John Muir!  My favorite fiction sleep stories are many! They have Greek myths, childhood favorites, fairy tales and more! The Dragon Tamers by Edith Nesbit is my favorite new story!  I even bought her biography! But I am almost too into the sleep story to be able to fall asleep! Fortunately, the app provides a vast range in level of monotony.  There’s one story that is just the British shipping forecast.  “Dr. Orma’s Sleep Science” is also a great non-fiction one to listen to when your especially frustrated about sleep – it reassures you and dispels common myths about insomnia.  This app really makes me feel better about the time I spend in bed, not sleeping.  Because I am meditating during that time, I can see that I am accomplishing SOMETHING.

Relax Melodies – This app has a free 5 day meditation program to help you manage your sleep better and stay asleep longer so you wake up well rested and energized.  It teaches you about the benefits of meditation and each 10-minute meditation is designed to guide you to sleep.  There are a couple other meditation programs on this app that provide you with the first few free as well.  You can create your own custom combination of relaxing sounds to lull you to sleep and set them on a timer length of your choosing.  I didn’t know there were types of noise other than ‘white noise,’ but apparently there exists ‘pink noise’ as well as ‘brown noise?’ (Sounds gross…lol)  The melodies included are fairly simple and repetitive, but they get the job done.  They also include isochronic tones and binaural beats if you’re into that.

Atmosphere – An app to customize your atmosphere, this helpful tool provides a variety of sound options organized by environment.  So you can choose to hear rain as it sounds on the beach, in the forest, in the city, etc. You can also import your own sounds, program favorite combinations, and set the timer for whenever you want.  Like Relax Melodies, this app also includes binaural and isochronic sounds that are supposed to help reduce stress and anxiety and stimulate creativity and mental clarity.  There are some unusual sounds – who wants to fall asleep to the sound of construction, sirens, or a rooster? But hey – whatever floats your boat!

Sweet Sleep – This is another free app for your phone and/or tablet that plays soothing sounds and music. My favorite is ‘lullaby of the forest’ combined with ‘gentle rain’ and ‘morning beach.’  You can customize melody/nature sound combinations, adjust the volume of each one in your mix, and set them on a timer.  This app has somewhat more variety in music choices, which is nice.  And they are less repetitive as well in addition also too.

Forest – Not specifically for napping, but if one of your sleep-related obstacles is your phone, this can definitely help. Basically this app helps you reduce the wasting time on your phone, keeping you focused and in the present..  I tend to just browse or play games on my phone at night when I should be trying to sleep.  And we all know electronic devices are supposed to be a no-no at bedtime! With this app, you choose an amount of time to commit to being phone-free and you plant a ‘tree.’ As long as you leave your phone alone during this time the tree grows and flourishes.  But if you interact with your phone, your tree dies 🙁 and your forest is ugly. With your rewards you can buy fun trees shaped like octopi, or made out of candy, or with awesome treehouses in them.  ALSO, If you plant enough trees in your forests, the app is partnered with a tree planting organization that will plant a real tree! (Alas, I’m not focused enough for that yet…) But it is also a great way to commit to focusing on getting daily tasks done, studying more efficiently, working, etc.!

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz….

Fol-De-Rol and Fiddle Dee Dee

The Final Writing Assignment

(For this class anyway…)

FIRST PARAGRAPH:

“Fol-de-rol and fiddle dee dee and fiddley faddley foddle
all the wishes in the world are poppy cock and twoddle.
Fol-de-rol and fiddle dee dee and fiddley faddley foodle
all the dreamers in the world are dizzy in the noodle.”

This is what the sensible people of the world say, according to Cinderella’s fairy godmother in the Rodger’s and Hammerstein’s musical in a song they sing together about Cinderella’s wish to go to the ball.  But together, they discover by the end of the song, that “impossible” can be changed to “it’s possible” with creativity, imagination, hard work, and someone who loves you to help.  Like Cinderella and her fairy godmother, I am learning and exploring how to grant my own wish of forging a career doing what I love: writing, being creative, and helping others.  I don’t yet know what that career will be exactly, but every day I am making choices to steer myself down the path to get there.  And I plan to use every tool and asset I have to help shape my wish out of the supplies I have.  And with a little help, and a little magic, I know I will get to the ball!

SUMMARY:

Turning the impossible to the possible is a process – one that requires many things.  It requires creativity and imagination.  Every day, I am thinking and brainstorming, searching for different ways to achieve my goals.  I am on the lookout for new opportunities to embrace that will keep me moving forward, eyes focused on the path ahead. It requires commitment, dedication and hard work. Sometimes the path is thorny, or blocked by a tree.  I continue to apply my imagination to identify creative and efficient solutions to remove such obstacles.  It requires bravery, and it requires stepping out of your comfort zone.  There is a certain degree of anxiety about the uncertainty of where the path leads, but you can’t turn back. It also requires help and support. Not all of us have a fairy godmother to turn our everyday objects into the perfect materials to achieve our dreams.  But we do have people who love us. Asking for help is scary and hard, but it is something I plan on practicing. Most of all, it requires hope, and I plan on keeping that hope alive, nurturing it, and seeing it bloom and grow into something even more beautiful.

“But the world is full of zanies and fools who don’t believe in sensible rules
and won’t believe what sensible people say..
and because these daft and dewey eyed dopes keep building up impossible
hopes impossible things are happening every day!”

I Suck at Meditating

But I still try to do it.

You know when I thought about the topic for this blog?

WHEN I WAS SUPPOSED TO BE FREAKING MEDITATING.


Right now, I’m primarily using this app called ‘Calm,’ which is not that bad.  The free features are perfect for a beginner like me to keep busy I mean CALM.   After a couple of weeks, I decided to actually pay(!?!?) for the whole app, and I’m surprisingly glad I did.  There are  meditations for everything.  And for each category, you can choose what length of time works best for you.

My favorite feature is the sleep stories.  They’ re just someone reading a story in a soothing voice.  Sometimes it’s super boring.  Sometimes it’s a metaphor.  Whatever.  They’re great.  There’s one non-fiction one that I have never been able to stay awake through!  And there’s one fiction one about how cats basically came from dragons! LOVED IT!

Here’s some more information about meditation!

Meditation 101:
http://aboutmeditation.com/beginners-guide-to-meditation-tips-benefits-techniques/
More about meditation:
http://www.aboutmeditation.org/
If Ron Swanson can meditate, so can I.
Ron Swanson Meditates
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